Generation Y, Trying to Do It All

18 Feb

Its official the wedding rings have come off the finger they have eagerly rested on and beautified my hand while doing so. They had progressively been getting tighter and I knew the day was destined to come. I am not attached to the rings themselves, as I know my husband loves me no matter what and we don’t need to signify our love with material objects. I love wearing my rings because they are stunning (well to me anyways) and so I don’t get ‘the look’, the oh you poor young girl pregnant with no husband look. Its the generation gap I guess, especially between those similar age of my grandparents. Yes, I am still young, in some eyes too young, I am 26 and dearest husband is 30. In today’s society I find that more people are waiting to expand their family than in the years past. However its a decision we made together. Did we want to have kids now, have the energy and stamina to keep up with them, or did we wish to wait another 15 years when we had more life experience and possibly financial stability? Another deciding factor was that when we retire it would be nice if our kids were out of the house, independent and we would be able to enjoy our time together and do the things we enjoy as adults, minus the children.

It’s a new generation. It’s the “all about me” Generation Y, or some would say. The generation that is setting their goals and going to get them, no matter what it takes. We have decided that we are starting our family now, not waiting, and are going to do it in as eco-friendly as our lives will allow us. I told a family member that we had registered for various slings and baby carriers as I support baby wearing. Her response… “Oh you are going to be one of those cloth diaper parents as well, lol”. Actually, yes. Yes, we will be “one of those cloth diapering families”. I didn’t think it was the right time to also tell her that there was no way in hell we would be putting chemical products, such as Johnson’s baby products, on our sweet little guys skin!

So with our little mans arrival getting closer and closer (pregnancy has not been gentle to me!) we are ready for this journey. The journey of a Generation Y mom wanting it all…..and I am set to do it…..or so I think. Its going to be quite a ride and I am so ready! Oh, did I mention that I run a business, or two, and hope to do this while simultaneously nursing an infant?!

Advertisements

2 Responses to “Generation Y, Trying to Do It All”

  1. Some kind of Wondermom April 9, 2010 at 1:51 am #

    Yay to babywearing! Have you bought slings? I had a stretchy pouch from Mama Kangaroo for my son, and he never liked it. My daughter loves the pouch sling, and at 10 months old I can still get her to fall asleep in it. I also have a Baby Hawk (Mei Tei style) which is awesome for when they are a little bigger and you don't want to lug a stroller. Ask @glidinglara what she thinks about her Beco, it's another good cross-over type of sling.

  2. Amanda April 13, 2010 at 4:17 am #

    @somekindofwondermom yes I have 7 diff. slings, lol, I don't know if DH will let me buy anymore 😉 have 2 sleepy wraps, mei tai style, sakura bloom, hot slings, baby bjorn, etc. hope baby boy likes them!

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: